Tuesday 5 June 2012
Time to dig and get it done now and its the name of life
Time to dig and get it done now….its the name of life
Step No1: Write Down What You’ve already Achieved
Even if it feels as though you’ve poured hours of your life into this and gained nothing at all, you have achieved something. That might be:
Even if it feels as though you’ve poured hours of your life into this and gained nothing at all, you have achieved something. That might be:
You’ve made some progress towards your goal (even though that progress wasn’t as much as you hoped).
You’ve learned new skills, or developed existing skills further.
You’ve made new contacts, or developed existing relationships with people who might be able to help you with other projects in the future.
You’ve figured out some things that don’t work – which means you’ve got a better shot of figuring out what does work.
It’s important to write down your achievements, rather than just thinking through them. Not only does this give you a record to come back to in the future, it also aids the thinking process – you’ll find more ideas coming to you as you write.
Step No2: Read About Other People’s Experiences
When we look at other people, especially personal heroes, we often think that they had a smooth path to success. Inevitably, they didn’t. Every entrepreneur has had failures; every writer has received rejection letters. Every person who’s successfully lost weight or got fit didn’t get there overnight.
You might want to read biographies of people who share some of your dreams and goals. You could also listen to interviews with these individuals, or look on their websites or blogs for their story of how they got to where they are today.
The path to success is never smooth, straight, and easy. It’s normal to struggle and to work hard without any rewards in sight … and when you find out more about the lives of your heroes, you’ll realize that they went through just the same things as you.
When we look at other people, especially personal heroes, we often think that they had a smooth path to success. Inevitably, they didn’t. Every entrepreneur has had failures; every writer has received rejection letters. Every person who’s successfully lost weight or got fit didn’t get there overnight.
You might want to read biographies of people who share some of your dreams and goals. You could also listen to interviews with these individuals, or look on their websites or blogs for their story of how they got to where they are today.
The path to success is never smooth, straight, and easy. It’s normal to struggle and to work hard without any rewards in sight … and when you find out more about the lives of your heroes, you’ll realize that they went through just the same things as you.
Step No3: Focus on the Process, Not the Results
If you’re spending hours of your life working towards a goal, you want to enjoy the process as much as possible. Sure, some goals have more excitement along the way than others – writing a novel is probably a lot more fun than paying off your debt – but you can always find something to enjoy in the process.
And enjoying the process generally won’t slow you down … it can actually make you move more quickly and easily towards your goal.
Let’s say you’re trying to lose weight and shape up. If you struggle away each week, trying and failing to stick to a monotonous diet, and putting on a pound as often as you lose one, it’s no surprise that you’ll quickly give up. But if you decide to focus on finding healthy meals and snacks that you genuinely enjoy, and exercise that’s fun rather than a chore, you’ll be much more likely to succeed (and you’ll enjoy the process).
If you’re spending hours of your life working towards a goal, you want to enjoy the process as much as possible. Sure, some goals have more excitement along the way than others – writing a novel is probably a lot more fun than paying off your debt – but you can always find something to enjoy in the process.
And enjoying the process generally won’t slow you down … it can actually make you move more quickly and easily towards your goal.
Let’s say you’re trying to lose weight and shape up. If you struggle away each week, trying and failing to stick to a monotonous diet, and putting on a pound as often as you lose one, it’s no surprise that you’ll quickly give up. But if you decide to focus on finding healthy meals and snacks that you genuinely enjoy, and exercise that’s fun rather than a chore, you’ll be much more likely to succeed (and you’ll enjoy the process).
Step No4: Look for Ways to Work Smart, Not Hard
Of course hard work is important … but it’s not always a sign that you’re doing the right thing. You might be working long days as a freelancer, for instance, when you’d be better off raising your rates by 50% and working a bit less. You could be struggling to get chores done around the house, when you’d be better off paying someone to do the cleaning while you get on with building your small business.
Don’t make the mistake of thinking that long hours, or boring work, are an inevitable part of success. If you can find ways to work smart instead of just hard – perhaps by delegating or automating routine tasks, or by focusing on the 20% of your efforts that are bringing 80% of your results – then you’ll find that your hard work begins to pay off sooner.
Of course hard work is important … but it’s not always a sign that you’re doing the right thing. You might be working long days as a freelancer, for instance, when you’d be better off raising your rates by 50% and working a bit less. You could be struggling to get chores done around the house, when you’d be better off paying someone to do the cleaning while you get on with building your small business.
Don’t make the mistake of thinking that long hours, or boring work, are an inevitable part of success. If you can find ways to work smart instead of just hard – perhaps by delegating or automating routine tasks, or by focusing on the 20% of your efforts that are bringing 80% of your results – then you’ll find that your hard work begins to pay off sooner.
Quran Information
Q.1:
Quran Pak Ki Wo Kon C Sura Hai
Jis Mein Sirf Aik Zer Ata Hai.
Ans:
Sura E Ikhlas
Q.2:
Un 2 Jandaron K Nam Bataen Jinhen
Baghair Halal Kiye Khaya Ja Skta Hai.
Ans:
Fish & Tiddi
Q.3:
Qayamat K Din Sb Se Pehly
Kinhein Kapre Pahnaye Jaeynge?
Ans:
Hazrat Ibraheem Alaihis Salam Ko.
Q.4:
Sura Yasin Ko Quran Ka Dil Kaha Jata Hai
Sura Rehman Ko Kia Kaha Jata Hai?
Ans:
Quran Ki Zeenat.
Quran Pak Ki Wo Kon C Sura Hai
Jis Mein Sirf Aik Zer Ata Hai.
Ans:
Sura E Ikhlas
Q.2:
Un 2 Jandaron K Nam Bataen Jinhen
Baghair Halal Kiye Khaya Ja Skta Hai.
Ans:
Fish & Tiddi
Q.3:
Qayamat K Din Sb Se Pehly
Kinhein Kapre Pahnaye Jaeynge?
Ans:
Hazrat Ibraheem Alaihis Salam Ko.
Q.4:
Sura Yasin Ko Quran Ka Dil Kaha Jata Hai
Sura Rehman Ko Kia Kaha Jata Hai?
Ans:
Quran Ki Zeenat.
44 ACTIONS THAT CAUSE THE DEPRIVATION OF BLESSINGS
44 ACTIONS THAT CAUSE THE DEPRIVATION OF BLESSINGS
1. Eating without washing hands.
2. Eating without covering the head.
3. Eating in the dark.
4. Eating and drinking at the doorstep.
5. Eating near the deceased.
6. Eating before one has done Ghusl [Major Purification Bath] (after a +++ual intercourse or nocturnal emission (release of semen)).
7. Delaying eating after the food is dished out [and served.]
8. Eating on a bed without placing a dining-mat.
9. Eating on a bed in such a manner that you sit on the side of the pillow and the food is placed where your feet would be, when you sleep on this bed.
10. Bitting the bread off with the teeth instead of breaking it with the hands (those who eat burgers should also keep this in mind).
11. Using broken ceramic or clay containers. (It is Makruh [reprehensible] to drink from the side of a cup that is broken. Do not use containers that are cracked as those cracks may house many germs and bacteria that could be very harmful for ones health).
12. Not cleaning used dishes.
13. Washing hands in the container that was used for eating.
14. Swallowing the particles of food, that were stuck in the teeth and have been removed by flossing or toothpick etc.
15. Leaving food containers or jugs uncovered. One should recite Bismillah and cover these containers because if left uncovered, misfortune descends into this food and drink which causes illness.
16. Placing food in places where it would be considered disrespectful and can easily be trampled upon, like throwing on the streets. (Sunni Bahishti Zaiwar, pp. 595-601)
The following are the actions that Sahykh Sayyiduna Burhanud-Din Zarnuji rehmatullah alaih has identified:
17. Sleeping in excess. (This can also cause ignorance)
18. Sleeping naked.
19. Urinating without any shame. (Those who urinate in public should pay heed.)
20. Being lazy in picking up fallen crumbs of food from a dining-mat.
21. Burning the peels of onion and garlic.
22. Sweeping the house with clothes.
23. Sweeping at night.
24. Leaving trash [garbage] inside the house.
25. Walking ahead of the Mashaykh [Scholars and Saints.]
26. Calling parents by their first names.
27. Washing hands with mud and sand.
28. To lean on a door on one side.
29. Making Wudu [Ablution] in the lavatory.
30. Sowing clothes while wearing them.
31. Wiping ones face with the clothes one is wearing.
32. Leaving spider web formations inside the house.
33. Being lazy in performing Salah.
34. Hastily leaving the Masjid after performing congregational Fajr Salah.
35. Going to the market, very early in the morning.
36. Coming back from the marketplace late.
37. Cursing children. (Women have often been observed cursing their children. Then they go on to complain of the lack of resources or of blessings [barakah] in their sustenance!)
38. Commiting sins, specifically lies.
39. Putting out a lamp (candle or lantern) by blowing at the flame.
40. Using a broken comb.
41. Not making Dua [Supplication] for the well being of parents.
42. Binding the turban while sitting.
43. Wearing pants or pyjamas while standing.
44. Delaying performing good deeds. (Ta-lim-ul-Muta-allim, pp. 73-76)
Friday 1 June 2012
To My Friends Who are
To My Friends Who Are...MARRIED
Love is not about "it's your fault", but "I'm sorry", not "where are you' but "I'm right here", not "how could you" but "I understand", not "I wish you were", but "I'm thankful you are."
To My Friends Who Are...ENGAGED
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.
To My Friends Who Are...NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person." It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
To My Friends Who Are...HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
To My Friends Who Are...NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.
To My Friends Who Are...SEARCHING
True love cannot be found where it does not truly exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does. Love is magic. The more we hide it, the more it shows; the more you suppress it, the more it grows.
To My Friends Who Are...PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
Never say I love if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when what you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall.
To My Friends Who Are...POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
To My Friends Who Are...AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.
To My Friends Who Are...STILL HOLDING ON
A sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and we just have to let go.
To My Friends Who Are...SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it would come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often times it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is worth it. So take your time and choose the best!
Love is not about "it's your fault", but "I'm sorry", not "where are you' but "I'm right here", not "how could you" but "I understand", not "I wish you were", but "I'm thankful you are."
To My Friends Who Are...ENGAGED
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.
To My Friends Who Are...NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person." It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
To My Friends Who Are...HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
To My Friends Who Are...NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.
To My Friends Who Are...SEARCHING
True love cannot be found where it does not truly exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does. Love is magic. The more we hide it, the more it shows; the more you suppress it, the more it grows.
To My Friends Who Are...PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
Never say I love if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when what you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall.
To My Friends Who Are...POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
To My Friends Who Are...AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.
To My Friends Who Are...STILL HOLDING ON
A sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and we just have to let go.
To My Friends Who Are...SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it would come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often times it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is worth it. So take your time and choose the best!
Saturday 26 May 2012
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